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我们内心的冲突

我们内心的冲突

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你是真的喜欢某人,还是觉得应该喜欢他就自以为喜欢上了他?看到亲人离世,你是真的感到悲伤,抑或只是习惯性地表达哀悼?你是真的希望成为某种人,还是仅仅因为这种人受人尊敬且收入丰厚?……本书指出,由于深受生活环境的影响,我们总是与我们想成为的人背道而驰,于是产生了这些足以主宰我们人生的内心冲突。为了解决这些冲突,我们不但自欺欺人地虚构了各种“理想化意象”,通过“外化”把责任推给他人,还基于不同的性格倾向发展出一系列各不相同的防御策略:顺从型选择了亲近他人、对抗型选择了抗拒他人、疏离型选择了疏远他人。但这些策略更像是精致的代偿与逃避,不但没有消除冲突,反而使我们深感恐惧、焦虑和绝望,无法真诚地投入任何关系或者工作中,觉得一切已经定型,再也不会有所好转,在糟糕的道路上越陷越深。作为新弗洛伊德主义的主要代表人物,卡伦·霍妮相信,人都有成长的愿望,会一直愿意成为一个更好的人。因此,她认为,只要改变了产生冲突的条件,就能真正解决它们。本书指出了我们在被内心冲突困扰时遇到的问题,并提出解决冲突的切实方法,让我们学会处置内心的孤独、疯狂、迷失和热爱,收获内心的完整、成熟和安宁,重建人生自信,更加勇敢而健康地活下去。

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ISBN13: 9787535491657
ISBN10: 7535491650
Language: Chinese

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    Understanding inner conflicts and paths to emotional peace.

  • Who is this book for?

    This book offers a profound look at the inner struggles we all face, explaining how our environments shape our reactions and conflicts. It’s like having a heart-to-heart with a wise friend who helps you see past your defenses and fears, guiding you toward genuine growth and self-understanding. If you're interested in exploring how to heal inner wounds and find true peace, this book could truly resonate and inspire your journey.

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Union Book | 友聯書局Union Book Co Pte Ltd, established in 1952, is a well-established and reputable Chinese book company in Singapore, known for its integrity and diligence, with over 70 years of contribution to the local cultural and literary scene.
Union Book | 友聯書局Union Book Co Pte Ltd, established in 1952, is a well-established and reputable Chinese book company in Singapore, known for its integrity and diligence, with over 70 years of contribution to the local cultural and literary scene.
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