Seeing Others: How to Redefine Worth in a Divided World

How do we measure our self-worth? For many, it signifies accomplishment, self-reliance, and wealth. Decades of neoliberalism have shaped our definition of success. As we have achieved more, we often feel overwhelmed and overworked in a world of increasing inequality. Should we judge others and ourselves differently? In this work, acclaimed sociologist Michèle Lamont argues that it is time to shift our focus from having to being. We can heal ourselves through the power of recognition by making others visible and valued. Drawing on nearly forty years of research and interviews, as well as new interviews with Generation Z, change agents, and cultural icons who promote recognition, she demonstrates how new narratives are crucial to changing our metrics of success to emphasize respect and dignity. Seeing Others addresses a significant gap left by recent economic and psychological thinking focused on nudging, grit, and constant striving, offering a powerful sociological perspective. This book is a call to action, addressing core struggles and suggesting an inclusive path forward.