The Muslim Handbook of Etiquette and Manners

This book is a new translation of Imam al-Ghazali's Adab fi al-Din, a concise yet thorough guide to proper Islamic conduct and character in a wide range of life situations. While numerous works discuss adab - translated here as "etiquette and manners" - this text stands out for its practical approach, structured in the manner of a handbook for quick and easy reference when the need appears. Al-Ghazali begins by outlining the essential principles that govern all interactions with other people and with oneself, and which every Muslim should strive to embody and cultivate within his or her life. He then proceeds to a discussion of adab with Allah, as the relationship with the Creator is at the heart of a Muslim’s character. The Imam details how one may cultivate reverence, humility, and mindfulness in this relationship, and provides practical advice regarding how to consistently remember Allāh, fulfill His commands, and show patience during life’s challenges. The core of the book is a sort of practical manual of adab, including sections on: the adab of scholars, students, Qur'an reciters, muhaddiths, khatibs, and other roles related to worship and seeking knowledge; adab of fasting, eating, drinking, charity, giving and receiving gifts, and attitudes towards wealth and poverty; adab of sleep, waking, social gatherings, and other everyday situations; adab of spouses, parents, children, and various relationships; adab of basic professions. Each section is typically brief, offering essential guidance on approaching each scenario. The book concludes with a discussion of universal adab applicable to many areas of life.